On this 43rd Wedding Anniversary,I thought of sharing some important 10 Dos and Donts for a Happy Married Life, for the Younger Generation:
Take it or Leave it!
Disclaimer:Incidental adverse motives or adjectives on the spouse are incidental and should be taken with the Right Spirits(preferably Champagne!)
1.Golden Rule No 1:If you want to preserve Your Independence,Read Swami Vivekananda and Take to His Raja Yoga!You will also be Truly Independent and similarly,the Spouse and the Society Too!
3.It is better for one to be the Earner and the Other a mere Spender!This way both will be Fully occupied and conflicts will be minimal!
5.Be prepared to understand Newton’s laws thoroghly as you grow old;For every Action,there is an equal and opposite Reaction!Especially if its about your Mother vs MIL!
6.Under any conflict situations,Remember Golden Rule 1:Raja Yoga and Meditate!
7.Remember that at any time ,when you are in a pathetic state ,lots of advice like “I told You So” will be available!
8.Always Remember that Love is different from Lust.If you want to know the difference Read :Veena, a Romantic Short Story
9.As your kids are getting settled in life,become a bit more Musical! (என்ன தவம் செய்தனை)
10.Finally,Never ever think of a Separation! Take a Relook in the Mirror!You have been extremely Lucky, Thank God! Don’t Mess it Up!